There is a reason that you are right where you are now – and it could be that you are waiting for something specific to happen.
You may feel that time is not on your side, that timing is out of wack, or that you have so much that needs doing, yet the timing of everything else is not right.
Small steps, appreciate where you are today, who is around you and the discussions you find yourself having. They may be serving a purpose, if not for you, for the person/people near you. Even the thoughts and feelings which you experience.
You may feel that you want it now. That you want certain things to end and for the life that you long for to be closer than “at your fingertips”.
Know that you will be taken care of and that you are destined for great things. Trust in yourself that you are deserving of that which you see in your mind’s eye. You are deserving of living the life you want. You can live the life you want.
Time is on your side – it is giving you exactly what you need right now to give you all that you desire in the times to come. They are there and they will come. Allow yourself, give yourself permission to experience what is now. You are here for a reason. Embrace all that is for you to learn from. Acknowledge it, it is yours.
It is like being on a City Circle Tram – you are along for the ride, observing people as they get on, take a seat, ride with you for a while, then they get off. You may offer them a seat so they are comfortable, you may even chat for a while and discuss dreams.
You are pleasing others if you are not getting out of this circle. You are not achieving anything for yourself except that you remain ‘safe’ and ‘comfortable’. There is no growth – you are not being ‘truly seen’ for the value you have to share.
Sure, by all means tell yourself that you are contributing – to WHAT are you contributing so that YOU can grow ?
The moment you can step away from that Cycle you have been on and stand tall to say “I am not here to please – I am here to give value, to give my worth and to give you what you need”, this is when you give yourself permission to receive a Return On your Investment.
Invest in Yourself – Be the person you want to be, Do what it takes to succeed, Give others what they need to thrive, Have a life of true fulfilment.
This is where you will discover your Ultimate Self – my 4 Step training takes you through this.
I wonder when you will reach life’s fulfilment which you TRULY deserve.
Comment below your life’s goal and when you want to achieve it.
Still standing – no matter what life challenges you with, you weather it in true form like Stonehenge, standing tall and strong. You have inner strength to call upon when needed, strength which will enable you to take on challenges through life. It is time to acknowledge all that is YOU.
You are wanting to feel strong and to have the determination in all that you do, to refuse nonsense from others. You are wanting confidence, greater self-esteem and the skills to weather whatever storm presents itself.
It is time to realise the energy you have within – all that you have now which can bring to life all you desire.
As one uses the pedal on that finely tuned piano, to bring depth to each note, to create new sounds which give meaning to the story being told. You desire that same Energy in your Soul.
So what is this ‘ENERGY’ that I speak of?
In line with a Personality Type which you represent, let’s consider the energy that you display, knowing that you can call on any of these energies – knowing that some are more powerful than the others.
I invite you to a fun Quiz to explore and ACKNOWLEDGE your Energies through the 4 Personality Types – D. I. S. and C.
Discover how YOU can be the finely tuned piano and bring depth to every note, every new experience, every new challenge … Click on the link at the top of the screen (refresh the page if you cannot see it) to take the Quiz !
You may feel like you are falling, without a safety net. You may know you need saving, yet who will save you?
When times get hard and we feel our heart racing, our shoulders are tense with the burden we carry, our mornings turn into nights, all that we see is that which we do not have, that which is denied to us.
Our focus is on what is lacking, what is not present in our lives. We exclude that which is good, that IS around us, that which is WITHIN us. The strength that lies within us is not so clear.
Feel this in your body, deeper, so that you can pinpoint where this feeling is. Notice how your body is.
You are worthy of saving – reach out and take that first step – YOU are loved and YOU can be the one who stops this cycle – YOU are worth saving.
Take that step to see the Sunrise, and its rays will shine brightly on you.
I wonder if you are so used to being invisible, feeling that you don’t matter, that when you do speak up you are apologetic to taking up someone’s time?
As much as we are allowed to feel what we are needing to feel, let’s not get caught up in creating a reality for someone else. How you see your world is your choice; perceiving someone else’s world is also your choice – it may be an incorrect assumption though, remember that.
Imagine the realization that you may be a slave or victim of your past beliefs. We can change our beliefs at any time – whether they are rules we have for ourselves and others, or what we value, or how we see the world in a Global context. Experience your emotions, acknowledge them, then let them go. Release those emotions so that you can focus on what comes next. Be clear on where you are headed. Seek direction if you cannot – that is why we are here, for YOU.
We often care so deeply for our children that we do not recognize the need for loving ourselves. Often we wrap ourselves up in hurt and pain, loneliness and judgement – now that cannot be good for our soul?
You have a choice. How would you like to live your life?
We shy away from vulnerability because we do not understand its true PURPOSE. To be vulnerable is to have COURAGE. When you have the courage to acknowledge your vulnerabilities then you have access to your emotions and you stand tall owning them. Here you will find Self-Love – when you take ownership for your emotions, your hurt, your pain – and this is where you take action to reap the rewards of your Self-Love.
There is no one-way of thinking – when we remove ourselves from being hidden from others, where we make the decision to remove the mask, and let others know our true and authentic self, then we can relish in the reality of being safe, loving ourselves for all there is, being OK with all that happens and knowing that we CAN grow, we CAN achieve, and we CAN love ourselves first.